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Because We Care - 21 Principles of Preventive Parenting  by Anthony R. Qunitiliani Table of Contents

THE NINTH PRINCIPLE

CONSTRUCTIVE ASSET BUILDING

An important protective factor in prevention of substance abuse is the asset building process. The Search Institute (Peter Benson) has now surveyed over 350,000 children and youth (grades 6-12) in 38 states. These surveys consistently show that more assets are correlated with less risk behavior, and those with higher than average assets succeed best in life. Furthermore, correlations were bundled in positive and negative behaviors. For example, lower levels of assets correlated with higher risk behaviors in negative areas (more violence, more depression, more ATOD use, more sexual behavior and poor school performance); higher levels of assets correlated with reductions in these risky behaviors. Assets are both external and internal: external assets include support, empowerment, boundaries, expectations, structured time; internal assets include educational commitment, prosocial values, social competence and positive identity. Experiencing helpful relationships with positive role model adults is an important aspect of asset building. Parents need to be directly involved in asset building with their children as a preventive and success-enhancing measure. More details appear on the next page.

 

HELPFUL HINTS IN ASSET BUILDING IN YOUR FAMILY

1. Refer to and become familiar with the list of asset building skills on the next page.

2. Review the assets list and apply it to yourself. Are there any assets you have strengths in? If so, assist your child with your best asset first. Are there any assets where you do not have skill? If so work on that asset for yourself before you attempt to help your child with it.

3. For children who are under age fourteen, select one asset a month to work on. Introduce it, encourage it, practice it and reinforce it in small incremental steps.

4. Select another asset where your child is weaker. For a long-term project develop a step-by-step plan with your child to develop this asset. For example, since interpersonal relationships are so important in life, ways to improve these assets include teaching them, coaching them, modeling them and reinforcing them. This cycle may apply to empathy skills, sensitivity skills, and friendship skills.

5. Contact your local school or social service agency and encourage them to offer ongoing asset building support groups for children and youth.

 

RECOMMENDED READING

Benson, P. L. et.al. (1995). What Kids Need to Succeed. Minneapolis, MN: Free Spirit.

 

LISTING OF CERTAIN DEVELOPMENTAL ASSETS

(From Search Institute)

EXTERNAL ASSETS

Asset Types Assets Meaning

  • Support - Family Support High Levels of Love and Help

  • Good Communication - Positive Parent-Child Talking

  • Caring - School Caring, Encouraging Setting

  • Parental Role - Parents Help Child Succeed

  • Empowerment - Useful Youth Roles Youth Play Useful Roles in their Community

  • Safety - Child Feels Safe in Family

  • Home, School and Community

  • Boundaries - Family Boundaries Monitoring, with Clear Rules and Consequences

  • Expectations - Adult Role Models, Adults Model Prosocial Norms

  • High Expectations - Parents and Teachers Support

  • Child's Achievement

  • Time Youth Activities - Involvement in Prosocial Acts

  • Time at Home - More Time at Home than Out

 

INTERNAL ASSETS

Asset Types Assets Meaning

  • Educational Achievement - Child is Motivated to do Well

  • Commitment to Homework - 1-2 Hours of Homework Daily

  • School Bonding - Child Cares about School

  • Values Caring - High Value Placed on Helping

  • Honesty - Child Tells the Truth

  • Responsibility Accepts and Takes Personal

  • Responsibility

  • Social Planning and Competence

  • Decision Making Skills to Plan and Choose

  • Interpersonal Role

  • Empathy and Friendship Skills

  • Resistance Skills - Able to Resist Negative Peers

  • Conflict Resolution Non-Violent Interpersonal

  • Problem Solving Skills

  • Positive Sense of Purpose Life Viewed as Purposeful

  • Identity Positive View of the Future

  • Learned Optimism


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